Hope – a catastrophe

Hoping for someone who hope for someone else,, can be catastrophic for emotional and psychological state of mind,, or hoping for things to happen differently fir the events that are happening right now just devoid us from what life is offering,,

It will make us to live in a never-ending , disturbing wait with an illusion of having possitive attitude in the form of Hope,

Hope is more dangerous than expectations, for peace of mind ,though it’s always associated with it, but it’s effect is quite delusional as in the wait of life to start, we keep on waiting for life to start till it’s end ,

So Before you Hope , just think what you are hoping,,

Know yourself and Define yourself

“It doesn’t matter what others have in their mind about you,, because the best person who know yourself is you only, know yourself and Define it to the world,,, being different may lead to social criticism at first , but then more you get to rub against ,, more you shine as your true self.”

Life’s flow

Flowing and flowing,

Sometimes like calm river,

Sometimes jammed sever,

Sometimes flash flooded,

Unstoppable and undeterred,

Sometimes Passing through valley of flowers,

Sometimes piercing through scorching deserts,

Sometimes falling over vertical cliffs,

Enriching it’s journey with varied experiences,,

Sometimes narrowing its size through narrow canyons,

Sometimes widening its presence to maximum in the plains,

It’s a journey which never stops midway,

And finally Ends it’s existence in it’s destined bay,

It’s harsh,it’s smooth,

It’s painful and also pleasure in its route,,

Such is the life’s flow,,

It has always much more to show,,

©Sanjay Ranout

Fears of mind – what ,why , and are they really worth??

When we think, why we are ignoring our instincts  ? Why are we not following our instincts? The only answer you will have is the fear, in actual lot of fears in our mind that are holding us back to take that first step.

Fear of people’s perception about us , if it’s good, then we are afraid of taking that step as we think it may get changed to something negative.

Fear of acceptance by our own near and dear ones. Fear of living in insecurity etc.

But I think the real thing is not fear but your own self belief and confidence on yourself.

Ever you think what will happen even if it goes wrong , nothing will actually change outside as people’s perception itself is temporary and full of their own self motives .

But it will change a lot inside you. It will change what you think about yourself. You will first time realise that it’s real you who is breathing in your body.

And I think that’s first step and only step you need to take to drive away all your fears. Fear itself is a worry about something that may happen but it hasn’t yet happened.

People’s perception changes with time and your position till the time you will continue living upto their perception of being right and still you can’t make all happy as all have different perspectives again.

But once you start being yourself ,your self outlook will be permanent and people will start thinking that can they really  make a wrong perception about you. It’s tough in the start but once you become fearless life is simple and clear .

Above everything you will be at peace with yourself

© Sanjay Ranout