I think people doesn’t understand that everyone has a different personality which owes to differences in their thoughts, perspectives and importance of different things.
Everyone think that what he /she thinks and does is only right way of doing things or living the life. But then we ignore the fact that same situations and circumstances have different effects on different people. Someone might be enjoying a situation while someone else might feel it suffocating at same time.
I think people lack the right approach of understanding.
I feel whatever I think, believe , have faith in and share with others now, is all because of experiences i have been through different times of my life. I won’t be able to narrate exact narrative but I will share key pointers.
First and foremost is living an unexpected life which often felt like against/opposite to all the plans and wishes I have made. It was mostly like that and then led me to learn how to accept the life and it’s happenings with grace and live in and love the present moment.
I used to repent, get frustrated a lot for so many things i wanted and couldn’t get, the way I wanted to live the life but i couldn’t and so on and on…. But then though, I learnt it hard way that life has its own course to follow and whether we stop or keep walking with it, it never stops. By stopping for a long we are stopping only our learnings of life which anyways it will teach us.
Secondly, experiences of many solo travels i undertook, changed and shaped my life too. It widens my thinking horizon and then I was able to understand that problems are part of life like mountains we need to climb to overcome them and then see the beauty of world from above before starting the next one.
In the aftermath of snow fall When traffic freezes for a while Person on driving seat With saddened state of mind Wondering how will he get to his home
To someone at home, it's amusing And for someone out somewhere it's so annoying Some one is smiling And some one is crying
In search of happiness One has found it so confusing Ultimately It all depends on Which side of Nile, are you standing, If it's desert enjoy the beachy shores And if it's greener side Enjoy the plush fields
Life follows different course for everyone If you have stormy journey Inspite of crying Just evolve stronger
The passage of life has changed some and strengthen some of my perspectives about life.
At some point of time,The things which seemed to be so important for my happiness or even survival, and when life has taken them away from me , it proved me wrong and life went on as it goes onhere I am even more at peace than ever.
There were some perspectives about life which were quite unorthodox to usual people’ s way of thinking and acting in the so called social life , and I felt It will be so unfair to me and my instincts if I leave them to follow what’s considered right. So, i decided to follow my heart and instincts no matter what , faced criticism with some frustration in start and later on with smile, and now I am known for who I am.
So as the life went on, i learnt one thing that it never let us teaching and it follows its own course as it has to. Whatever it has given us or taken away from us, it will also give the strength to bear it’s burnt or enjoy the pleasure of it. Best it to be silent watchful spectator and understand it’s experiences by going through them gracefully unhinderedly. That way has the peace of mind in the journey itself rather than at some destination. And when our mind is at peace, that’s best version of life one can imagine of living.